A role for a pro

I have taken the same steps throughout my lifetime. Granted, it's only been 31 years. I wonder if this is the same for everyone-or do people's lives change so drastically it's as if they've learned a whole knew way to walk.

Don't get me wrong-this is not a pity entry. I'm not whining, it's merely something I've noticed. At first, I thought my life was full of adventure. I liked to think that I was always embarking on something new because I was just that wild and crazy gal desiring and willing to try something....ANYTHING. I have recently realized that I have simply followed in the footsteps left by my parents. This is shocking and a bit disturbing, but I believe good has and will come out of it.

Lately I have seen the one thing I never wanted too badly end in ruins. What is most distracting about this is that it's true that sometimes you don't know how great something is until you've lost it. For me, it was not knowing how great something was until I had it and was quite happy-and then I lost it and am still a bit stunned. I will admit I've lost a bit of who I was in the process. Somewhere over the vast mountains and oceans I have been flying over lays pieces of what made me ambitious, a thinker, a dreamer. I find myself almost mentally lazy now. I have one goal-to take care of my daughter. I do everything in my power to not think of anything else. This includes great amounts of T.V. watching to keep myself distracted by what I am feeling, thinking...and, at times, regretting. I've never believed regret was healthy, I still don't, but it's there and I must avoid it at all costs. Keeping my mind silent keeps me from realizing how much I miss my life, my friends, my family, even some of myself.

These are the steps of my parents...these are the steps I've been taking my whole life without trying. The steps of constant failure. The steps of not holding something together. The steps of being consistently inconsistent. I am amazed as I look back down the path of my life, and now I wonder if I can avoid those prints left before me or if they are my destiny.